How anti-incest prejudice and discrimination harms children

I’ve very recently been contacted by a woman who is married to her father and has had children with him, and the state has taken away their two healthy kids, and the children have since been adopted by other families. Sadly, their plight is not unusual, it is a part of the ongoing campaign of prejudice and discrimination levied against our people, and it doesn’t just harm these loving parents, it also harms the children involved.

Can you imagine being a small child, having a mother and father who love you and look after you, and the next minute you are ripped from your home and sent to live with strangers. Now these strangers might be nice, but you still want mum and dad. You are then systematically told that your parents are bad people and that is why you cannot live with them any more. Growing up you get told that they are disgusting perverts and deviants, and that you wouldn’t have been safe with them. You’re told that their relationship was WRONG and SICK and DISGUSTING, and that you’re the product of that ‘disgusting’ union.

What does this do to the self-identity of the child? If their parents were disgusting and created them by disgusting means, doesn’t that make the child feel disgusting? Wouldn’t that then make the child hate him or herself, as well as hate their birth parents? How is any of this healthy for the child? It isn’t! It is stigmatizing the child and the parents. In effect it is telling the child that he or she should not exist, and that he or she is defective. What a terrible and vile message to give to a child.

How the fuck can we justify taking children away from their loving families and subjecting them to this in the name of ‘child protection?’. We can’t! It’s insane, it’s abhorrent and it must stop. Child protection services are meant to be taking children away as a last resort measure, when the children come from homes where there is drug abuse, domestic violence, or a pedophile living there, or the children are neglected or otherwise abused… it should NEVER be a tool to be used in part to discriminate against a sector of society that does not harm anyone, let alone children.

Some people try to justify it using arguments like ‘if children are raised by incestuous parents, they will think it is normal and be brainwashed to be that way themselves’. Excuse me but that is complete horse shit. Same shitty argument was used to in times gone by to deny homosexual couples the right to adopt children or use surrogates, that it would somehow make the children gay. The vast majority if children raised by homosexuals turn out heterosexual, and guess what, the vast majority of children raised by consanguinamorous parents will turn out to be regulars! The sexual orientation of the parent has little or no impact on the sexual orientation of the children, so say otherwise is to be in denial of the evidence!

The other main objection is when people falsely conflate incest with pedophilia. They argue that incestuous people are more likely to sexually abuse children. This is again a false assumption. Pedophilia is when adults become sexually attracted to prepubescent children, it is an aberration that so far neither medicine nor psychology has been able to effectively treat. A pedophile may molest children who are related or unrelated. Those who are molesting their own children are likely doing so because of the easy access to them, not because they are related. It’s a lot harder for them to molest their neighbors children, for instance. Consanguinamorous people are ONLY interested sexually in other adults who are related to them. So then, why  would somebody who is exclusively attracted to adults molest a child? They wouldn’t! It makes no sense, the whole argument is a nonsense.

The other one is that the children born are probably deformed because of the inbreeding. Again, so many healthy children are born to consanguine couples and there is no reason to take these kids away. Even in the instances that there are genetic problems, that is STILL no reason to remove the child from loving parents. You wouldn’t remove a downs syndrome baby from a home with two unrelated 45 year old parents would you? Of course not… so stop doing the equivalent to incest couples.

FOR THE SAKE OF THE CHILDREN’S WELFARE, STOP STIGMATIZING THEM AND US, STOP TAKING THEM INTO CARE FOR NO GOOD REASON AND THEN BRAINWASHING THEM AGAINST THEIR PARENTS WHO LOVE THEM, AND STOP SPREADING IGNORANCE AND FEAR ABOUT US. THE COMMON OBJECTIONS ARE NOTHING MORE THAN HATE-MONGERING AND LOGICAL FALLACIES.

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Really people this stuff makes me so angry.

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