A friend of mine in the community has asked me to put this on my blog for you, she is able to help you two, please get in touch with her:
Dear Kim and Ben,
I am a Legal Secretary and advocate for the rights of consenting adults to have love, sex, residence and marriage with any and all consenting adults.
I have been following your story on the internet closely and I think it is absolutely awful that law enforcement has forced you into hiding.
I have experience with GSA so I completely understand what you both are going through. I congratulate you on finding love and happiness together.
Due to the oppressive laws that you both are forced to live and love under, I feel deeply for you and your situation.
If you are reading this, please know that you have a friend, ally, and advocate in me. I want to help you in any way I can. I would welcome contact and would do anything I could to help you.
Please check out my website www.lilysgardener.com
If you want to contact me completely confidentially, please email me at firstname.lastname@example.org
Kind Regards to you both, Cristina
Cristina will be able to help you legally here, please contact her we don’t want to see anything bad happen to you two.